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"Love is patient,
love is kind.
It does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude,
it is not self-seeking,
it is not easliy angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects,
always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails."
1 Cor 13:4-8
"Ideal love is fostered only between two sincere, mature and independent people.
It is the inner struggle to polish these attributes that is the key. Real love is not two people clinging to each other; it can only be fostered between two strong people secure in their individuality."
-Ikeda Sensei, Wisdom of Words
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it's pretty weird that they use animals to do this love test. But, we all have a little "animal" in us.
probably this test will surface some of the pointers that u will least expect. ;p
http://www.naucon.net/misc/tests/love_test01.htm
from the love test - animal test,
1. You are attracted to those who have split personality, like cold as ice on the outside, but hot as fire in the heart.
2. In the process of courtship, the approach that would make you feel irresistable is patience, never give up on you.
3. The impression you would like to give to your lover is loyal, faithful, never change.
4. What you hate most in your partner is that the person is ruthless, cold-blooded, and/or ironic.
5. The kind of relationship you would like to build with your partner is one that you care not only about the present but also the future with your partner, a long-lasting relationship that you can grow with.
6. You care about the society and morality, you won't do anything wrong after marriage.
7. You are afraid of marriage, you think it would take away your freedom.
8. At this moment, you don't want to be tied down by a steady relationship, you just want to flirt around.
:: dawn tan :: at 9:39 PM what actually urges someone to get agitated and spout nonsense? everyone should be responsible with what one had said. If in any case that one loses his/her stand, one should admit it and learn the mistakes. By overdoing it (defending yourself) will only put yourself to the hall of shame in a better "limelight". Yes, you get the attention, but it is not something to get egoistic with. What a dumb ass. It is so disturbing that someone of anonymous identity is making unnecessary scenes. It is nice to drop by and leave some comments, but not to the extent of others finding him a nuisance. hahaha. i think he does not know what is the meaning of "bu yao lian"! well aud, all e best to u ger! :D
:: dawn tan :: at 7:41 PM the term-break week is approaching to an end...
everything is ending so quickly and it is too fast! I haven't enjoy enough, i haven't watch enough tv and did not club at all. booboo! haha. most often, we make plans but we somehow don't carry it out. I want to do this and that, but in the end, nothing came out. This is so not efficient. But, Aud made a request to go for the cleo's birthday party.. hope we'll go in the end!
now, i'm in the hall's sport sub-com, but i intend to give it little effort. I think we are all aiming for the points. U do more or less, it's still the same amount of points. So, why give so much effort? Besides, my mum may ask me to drop the idea of staying in hostel after my second semester. But i think i will just tire out, boon lay is like the other end of the world! Worse to worst, i may have to pay for e hostel fee. Oh man, which means i have to work part-time or find more tuition. Speaking of tuition, it'll be ending next month as PSLE approaches. there goes my extra cash.. :(
life is so troubled with money sometimes and it is so irritating. life revolves around money, and u don't have enough, you just feel so empty in life. Like, you can't get what u want, nice clothes, buy all the books i want to read, go travelling... But luckily, there are more issues than money in this world that make me optimistic. That's why, i'm still so happy! :)
:: dawn tan :: at 8:38 AM there can always be a twist in life.
Remember my previous entry about how sad am i for not being able to be in the canoepolo (cp) team? but, i decided to be thick-skinned and told them that i'm really interested and want to train with them! i guess it's all about opportunities.There can be ups and downs in life. we just have to learn to accept and then, try to improve to excel. okok, i went for the training yesterday.. learning how to do eskimo roll, throwing the ball( side loop throw, high throw, passing). i was confused and not so good in the games. haha. Played two games, but i was super lost in the game. they are too fast for me to react! haha. Well, as for the eskimo roll, still need more tries to perfect the roll. i capsized myself over and over and over again to do this roll. not easy k! some take 3 weeks.. hope i dun take so long! haha. when u know how to do roll, u'll be more aggressive in the game caz u won't have the psychological barrier that someone will hand-tackle and make u capsize!Even though now im going for CP training, i don't think i'm in the competitive team. However, i'm keeping my fingers crossed. Cp is an aggressive game and definitely more interesting than canoeing! i think i would prefer leisure canoeing, expedition kind than to competitive. Haha, i'm not fast enough to row K-2 again la. i must admit it. hehe. Most of the girls in cp are in canoeing too, and they asked me to join back canoeing.. but i really don't want. Because, like i say, i'm not fast enough and, i don't want to waste the amount of money spent to improve my facial skin! Blazing hot sun + dirty kallang water = disaster! ;P
:: dawn tan :: at 6:34 PM
" To find what you seek in the road of life, "Leave no stone unturned." "
:: dawn tan :: at 3:55 PM hopes.. no more
i went for canoepolo try-out last week. and i was waiting for their reply email to tell me that i can be in the competitive team....... but...... there was no reply. i just heard from a senior that the captain had already selected the people they want in their team... wth. i am so down. dun noe if i am suay or what! there wasn't many girls and i thought i had a better chance with my canoe-background. so sian. i dun want to continue typing. it only makes me more depressed. boo boo!!!
:: dawn tan :: at 11:36 PM
it's only thursday.. but i'm already so worn out! this week i'm so stressed up with 3 quizzes! the last one would be tomorrow! Life sciences to me is a killer, caz i don't have any biology background. I don't even remember taking biology in secondary school. the teacher was also too embarassed to teach that two "Special" topics in the secondary 2 science textbook! haha! But i'm relieved that i didn't take up that subject.. interesting but too demanding for my brain cells. I think my brain cells are not very activated enough.. anyone has any idea how to make my brain cells work better? Like.. be more responsive and more intelligent. i know it's all in the genes.. i want to "correct" myself! haha! This week may be very tensed up, but im still quite happy!! Caz, yes, yesterday was the 8th of the month.. it was our 26 th month together! i love u baby! hehe.. although we didnt really celebrate, but knowing that we are still lovingly together.. i feel so blessed! So showered with love.. concern.. so sweet!! hehe.. *im blushing!*
what it takes to keep a couple together? besides the love between each other, there are still so many factors. Love itself is not enough, we have to think about money, family, friends.. and so many other things! It takes a lot of effort and time to maintain a relationship. But, it is worthwhile because i feel the happiness. that is life, doing what u feel happy about. so, never hesitate to try out something that u have never done before. U never know what u will expect.. until u try it! :)
:: dawn tan :: at 3:48 PM
dawn tan pei yi
8 feb 1985
live to smile,
For everyday
is a beautiful day!
reading:
How to walk in high heels
- Camilla Morton
song in da head:
::voice out::